Not everyone experiences happiness in the same way. But everyone does experience it.
We destroy our happiness though when we compare it to the happiness being experienced by others. When this happens, our happiness begins to diminish and eventually turns to resentment.
At every juncture in your life you will have a choice: Be grateful for all the blessings you’re privileged to enjoy or question why you don’t have the same gifts as your neighbor, friend, spouse, siblings etc.